This is most certainly it if there was a tricky conversation to bring up with someone special. Get it right, and you could be in for the experience of a lifetime, if not a regular addition to your sex life. By contrast, get it wrong, which could instantly end your relationship.
Still, evidence has shown that whether they admit to it or not, the overwhelming majority of people like the idea of the threesome. Some studies have revealed that as many as 90% of Americans have fantasized about group sex, yet only 18% have gone ahead with a threesome.
The desire to bring a third person into the bedroom isn’t something that can be satisfied virtually. Even with all the fantastic live cams sex services on earth, it’s not the same as having someone else with you at the time.
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The question is – where can you head online to find someone who’ll want to hook up with the two of you? More importantly, have you considered the potential implications of a threesome and whether or not it’s the right thing for you?
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No Going Back
The most important thing to remember is that once a threesome is underway, there’s no going back. At least in the sense of the potential consequences of the encounter.
You need to consider this carefully, by how strong (or otherwise) your relationship is. If there is even the slightest chance that bringing in another person could jeopardize your relationship, you should reconsider the whole thing.
Any issues with confidence, self-esteem, insecurity, or anxiety and a threesome could be a fundamentally bad idea.
But if you have hashed things out with your partner and you’re both 100% determined to go ahead, it could be the experience of a lifetime. It could even be life-changing and something you do regularly to strengthen your relationship.
Popular Apps for Organising Threesomes
Unsurprisingly, this niche is catered to quite generously by a long list of ‘dating’ apps. We say ‘dating,’ but the primary purpose of these apps is, of course, something quite different.
Interestingly, browsing these apps to see what’s going down (no pun intended) can be a good way to test yourself as a candidate for a threesome. Once you see the things people are getting up to and whom they’re getting up to, you’ll be in a better place to work out if it’s for you.
A typical real-world threesome is not the same as the group sex encounters you’ve seen in your favorite porn clips.
If you and your partner like what you see and decide to go ahead, the very best apps doing the rounds for exactly these kinds of encounters are as follows:
Feeld
The self-proclaimed “dating app for open-minded couples and singles,” Feeld is a one-stop shop for these kinds of things. While placing heavy emphasis on privacy and discretion, Feeld makes it an absolute breeze to find, chat with, and make other types of arrangements with like-minded people. It’s a no-BS app that’s all about hooking up and getting adventurous, so it is a good place to start.
FetLife
Similarly, FetLife has been on the scene for more than 10 years and continues to cater to crowds with kinky fetishes. This kind of community where everyday threesomes are quite vanilla, so it should be fairly easy to arrange. Rest assured that if there’s anything you’ve ever wanted to try out but have been afraid to bring it up in conversation, there’s probably a bunch of people on FetLife standing by to get the job done.
3Somer
If you’re planning on taking your new swinging lifestyle seriously, 3Somer is the place to head. This platform tends to attract the veterans on the scene, who know what they are doing and have been around the block plenty of times. You create a profile with your partner, reach out to other creative couples, and set up your meetings in the real world.
Grindr
Lastly, if you’re looking to bring another man into the bedroom for your partner’s pleasure (and why not), Grindr is highly recommended. Not limited exclusively to gay men, Grindr is loaded with profiles of bisexual men who love pleasuring women just as much as men.
